The dating guy tvrip
mine apparently picked up on my reaction to Adrienne Barbeau being tied up on Fantasy Island! There's a reasonable copy of the Sleeping Voice at Cutscenes - link above.
I also thought of an idea of doing some of your gimp stories in illustrated style.
Re: Ralphus' girl friend's reaction to Fatal Pulse...: I wouldn't fuck you after that either!!
I agree with you that most partners will find out (they are nosy as hell!
I use the strategy of asking her what her fantasies are and then telling her some of mine, starting with the lightest versions first just to open the door. ) Ted raises a good point to remember in any relationship with a woman: You need to be clear in advance on how to answer the trick questions that come into them with mother's milk. a bunch of naked guys taking turns fucking her while she's tied, but she can see me watching and knows she'll pay when they are done.) Two things that require more care: Getting her to participate (I agree that's not so common), and sharing all the way to the depth of your darkest places. Maybe a short non-fatal clip of electro (nobody willing to try that one yet).
I've found a couple who were open enough to play along, and some who found they dug it up to a point. If your partner is into control in the relationship--you've given her dynamite ammunition against yourself, and you'll find out soon. But if I have to keep an important part of me hidden, the relationship isn't likely to be a long-term keeper, and I'd rather know upfront.